Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate. Because of our travel, we’re fortunate to celebrate two Thanksgivings a year usually with family or friends. This year we celebrated on our own in Ottawa.
While our mini-turkey cooked I reflected on Thanksgiving/turkey dinners in the past. I made my first turkey dinner when I was 14. My mother had a turkey thawing in the sink and had a heart attack. After the paramedics left with Mom, I was left alone with the turkey which needed to be cooked. So I did. My dad said the dinner was good but he couldn’t taste anything.
We’ve had many dinners with our girls. Both Tracy and I love stuffing and I had to make lots. We’re pretty specific how the stuffing is to be prepared, lots of sage and no celery.
One Thanksgiving Tracy came home from school and complained of a “zit” on her shoulder where her backpack hit. She had been on a trip to Peru the previous summer and spent time in the jungle. The zit looked like she had a boil Later she went to Kim’s apartment to hang out. She had a shower and looked over her shoulder into the mirror and saw a little head pop out of her zit. The girls phoned us and we met them at the walk-in clinic. On the way I pictured scenes from the Alien movie. The young doctor who drew on on-call Thanksgiving weekend straw was thrilled to have something interesting. After consulting with a tropical disease specialist, he explained something had bit her and laid an egg which had hatched. It shouldn’t be removed as it would resist and break off. He liberally applied Vaseline and covered it with a bandage so it would smother. Once we got home the shock wore off and we were joking a bit about Tracy’s jungle bug. We returned the next day. The bug was groggy but still alive. The girls decided the doctor was cute. The Vaseline and bandage was refreshed and we waited another day. Tracy had lots of friend visiting and her little Peruvian friend was the highlight of conversation (along with referrals about the cute doctor). On the third visit Tracy went with an entourage (to check out the doctor) and her was able to extract the bug which she brought home in a vial of formaldehyde.
Our friend, LJ, would host fabulous Thanksgiving dinners for those who had no family to celebrate with. Usually there were about 20 people. She made all the food. It was a labour of love to her friends.
We’ve had many American Thanksgivings, many with Jerry’s sister Tricia and her husband, Tom. Tom and I occasionally cook together. Our methods are polar opposites. He measures carefully and I use the pitch and chuck method. Surprisingly we work well together. When we lived in the States we usually shared Thanksgiving dinner. I had a fall themed table cloth that had to adorn the table whether it was at our home or theirs. One Thanksgiving afternoon we got into the wine and played cards. The time got away from us and we got pretty inebriated as the afternoon went on. All of a sudden then turkey was ready and nothing else. It was all hands on deck in a panic and great to see super organized Tom rattled. (Not to mention, he makes Stove Top Stuffing with apples in it outside the turkey – BLASPHEMY!)
I’ve also had stuffing disagreements with our buddy, Bill when we visited him and his wife, Maggie’s place in Hawaii. Bill likes his Mom’s stuffing. I think one end of the turkey had Bill’s stuffing and the other had mine.
We’ve spent many Thanksgivings in BC at Kim’s as her birthday falls on that weekend and we plan to spend time there on our way south. Kim made her own cider and she and Dana would host a cider press party for her birthday. Their friends would come and chop and press the hundreds of pounds of apples that Kim had picked from local orchards. Needless to say they were rewarded with a fabulous meal.
As I type this, the tryptophan and wine are kicking in and I smile at all the great memories we’ve had. We’re on our on this year, but not alone. I’m sure you’ve had great memories too, please share them in the comments.





































